A Complete Composure
How being composed can help you to do things well
Composure is a thing that anyone needs in life and It really helps us. When we have good composure we can be focused on doing our job and not easily bothered by small inconveniences. Even big inconvenience if handled rightly will keep our project on track.
To be a composed person is to be not panic when unexpected things happen or to stay calm when things do not go according to the plan. When we are not panic then we will think more clearly and be able to make the best decision at critical times.
The importance of preparation
Preparation is something you need to do before you do anything. In preparation, you need to learn the case, gather all information and the tools, plan the strategy, and even up to the smallest details. So everything will go according to the plan. You also learn about the other possibility that may arise, the major setback you might face, and how to handle them.
When you are well prepared, all the possibilities are already in your calculation. You can start with confidence because you trust In yourself that you can handle all the possibilities.
Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the ax.
- Abraham Lincoln
The simple case of composure Is when you wake up late, most of people when they’re wake up late in the morning, they will panic and take shower immediately and do all the preparation recklessly. But doing things recklessly will resulting new problems, and if they handle the new problem recklessly it will result in more problems and that goes on. The right thing to do when you wake up late In the morning is to spare a minute to take a deep breath and think how much time you have left and figure out how to use them the best possible way so you will not be late to work, thus you can do things more clearly and stay calm because everything is already in your calculation.
Just because you start early doesn’t mean you will finish first. You can start late with well preparation and you can finish first with better results.
Composure is related to confidence
Confidence is a reflection of how much you trust yourself. When you understand the assignment, you understand the whole condition, and you are prepared for anything even for the worst scenario, you feel confident about yourself, then you will never be afraid of anything. Even when the world crumbles down you will be calm and never panicked because know what to do and how to turn things around.
Anger Resolve Nothing
When something terrible happens, most of us just curse things. But cursing things only draining your energy. The energy you suppose to use to think about the strategy is you waste to curse things.
Because no matter if you curse or not, it doesn’t change the situation, what can change the situation is your effort towards the problem, how we work to solve the problem.
So when we are facing a major setback, sometimes it’s okay to feel bad and let the emotion disappear for a while. don’t let one small bump hold you back for too long. Get up and re-think about the strategy, evaluate, figure out how to do things in the most effective way.
The best part of being a composed person is you don’t have any space for negative energy in your life. Things may go bad but when you choose to not feel pissed, angry, and panic then choose to solve the problem carefully then you will have a peaceful mind and maintain the positive energy in your life.
Having good composure can help us to do things right even under pressure. To have composure is to feel confident and have a firm trust in ourselves because we believe in our capacity. Those can be achieved through understanding the whole case and preparing the whole things for any possibility.