Forget Your Dreams

Senopati Diinan
3 min readApr 30, 2023

Everyone has dreams and aspiration. Me, you and everybody else has dreams. At certain point of our life in the past, we may found something intriguing and we set it as something to pursue in life. Some of our aspiration may we have achieved and some are still need more effort to make it happen.

Big goal takes time and it requires big effort and patience. You right now may on a quest in pursuing a certain goal in life and you may have been in this quest for years. That’s good one, a consistency and dedication for long time is not something that everyone has.

But often people who already made up their mind to pursuing their one dream, they often overlooked many better opportunities that arises along the way. Their vision become narrow and their perspective may have become distorted and the shine may blinded their sight. That what obsession affect someone, it makes something looks more appealing than they actually are.

Don’t be a victim of your cluelessness

in the past, when we find something that intrigued us to follow, we set this as something we want to pursue. We have to admit that some of us were young and clueless. We understand little about world, life, and even about ourselves. The more we grow up, we are exposed to things that makes us learn about something and it gives us better understanding in everything and it also develop our knowledge and perspective.

The more we grow up, the more we are equipped with better knowledge and wiser perspective. And the way we see the world is gonna be different. we may realize something we oversaw, we may find out that our belief is wrong, we may find something better along the way. we need to be open and flexible and accept new things we learn, dont be stubborn in believing in something that we used to believe in. dont be a victim of your cluelessness. be flexible on your dreams and you may get something better than what your intial dreams offer.

The world is constantly changing

The world we live in today is so much different than the world we used to live in the past. The world changing rapidly right now. and things you pursue since years ago may not relevant anymore right now.

many new hot jobs rising lately and many jobs died caused of technology, then you need to be adaptive in this era. watch new opportunity and dont stick on the plans that not relevant anymore.

Seek the best opportunities, work for the best outcomes

In whatever we do,make sure our eyes seeing our surroundings, whatever promising opportunity arise, work for it. Open for any opportunity, Be agile. Work for the best outcomes means whatever you doing to do, make sure you dont miss any good opportunity that arise along the way.

its like you go out for hunt and you want to hunt chicken, since you want to hunt you ask for simple firearm to your parents, then unexpectedly your parents gave you more advanced firearm that more than enough to hunt chickens, and it’s enough to hunt a deer. facing this then why would you still hunt for chicken while you’re capable to hunt a deer?

it shows that you may develop further than what you were aimed, and facing this situation why would you settle for less?

It’s okay to stick with your dreams as long…

sticking to dreams in some occasion may a good decision because some dreams need dedication and you may pursue the right dreams. but make sure you always learn and access all possibilities and opportunities along the way.

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