On Matrimony

Senopati Diinan
2 min readJul 5, 2024

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We are in a constant motion of living through multiple series of life phases. From joyful early years, confusing teenage days to draining adult phases. In each life phase, we have our circle and our ally. Over time, the people we close with will slowly be taken away from us. just like our close childhood friends we might never see again.

Farewell is a bitch, and it’s inevitable in our life. all the people we are happy to be with, slowly will go away. the Friendships we hold dear will slowly drift apart. In this screwed up life, we will never know when will the last time we see someone. just count how many close friendships that already dried throughout the time without us even realizing it.

Time changes everything. and you cannot force time to stop behaving that way. just count the friendships you couldn’t save, the people you love you couldn’t keep, the peers who have drifted away. everything about it is just a melancholy truth.

Good times won’t last forever, time will pass and change everything. you will never be able to keep all the people you love. Soon, you will never see each other again. Life has its phases and twists, and time forces us to experience it all. Rarely does life allow us to keep the fragments of our life from past life phases. so few ties we can hold forever.

In this chaotic dimension we experience. luckily life still has its own mercy. Despite time will sweep all the good things we have, life still allows us to keep one the most precious person we ever found along the journey. as a companion to living through a series of life phases ahead until we done experienced all things there to experience.

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